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I know this is a really old post so I'm sorry to comment on it so long after the fact. But I never really took a step back as imagined it from that point of view. My husband and I have been having so many issues with our sex life, and come to think of it they only started after we got our own place together. We have even having so many money issues lately, and I lost my job. A lot of the bills are falling on him, he's working himself to death. And I think of your point of view and it makes me feel so incredibly selfish. I want him to want me the same way he did when we were dating, and I understand stress is a huge factor. But I'm young, (20) and my libido is considerably higher than his, (he's 29). It's just things like bills and work never got to me, I was never a worrier, always knowing my family would help me if things got really really bad. But I guess he wasn't raised with that, so while I'm worrying about him never wanting to have sex with me he might be worrying about bigger issues. But I do thank you for that wonderful insight you offered her, and I'm happy you had a logical response instead of complaint after complaint again. Thank you for the new perspective.