Omg please I HAVE BEEN IN THE SAME SITUATION ! I just turned 23 my boyfriend is 25 and we have been together for about five years !! Five freaking years, almost six now. The first few months we had sex all the time then I started always having to initiate until all the sudden it just stopped cold turkey. We literally did have sex for an entire year, now it's been almost 6 months maybe more I don't even bother keeping count. We have sex maybe twice or three times a year. It makes me feel horrible, I've never dealt with this before and I'm so young I didn't ever in my wildest dreams think this would happen especially at my age. I can't imagine what our sex life we be like at 50 .. Probably completely non existent. I cry myself to sleep too often, I get denied too often I have talked to him about a thousand times, it actually the only thing we argue about. He says the same crap, why don't I try to start it (I thought I was) or he says I want to have sex too late at night. It's absurd. I even told him I was going to leave that I can't do this anymore and he said he would try .. Still nothing not even on my birthday. We went on a cruise for his bday to the Bahamas that I planned and nope no sex there either. We stayed at an amazing resort in boca for over a week, nothing. I even tried to get him in the shower with me .. Nothing. I totally initiated when we were at the pool alone at night ... Nothing he practically said NO to my face. I know he's not cheating which almost makes this worse. I feel totally unwanted , ugly , like there's something wrong with me. I have tried the sexy lingerie, making a romantic dinner with candles, getting all dressed up, fav perfume, great makeup everything. For his bday I gave him special made cards that basically said "free blowjobs whenever u want just use this card" - it has been 2 years and he has not used it once ! Can someone tell me what to do :( I'm desperate and depressed over this. Oh and remember I'm freaking 23! This body and sex drove will NOT last forever. We started dating when I was 17.
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Omg please I HAVE BEEN IN THE SAME SITUATION ! I just turned 23 my boyfriend is 25 and we have been together for about five years !! Five freaking years, almost six now. The first few months we had sex all the time then I started always having to initiate until all the sudden it just stopped cold turkey. We literally did have sex for an entire year, now it's been almost 6 months maybe more I don't even bother keeping count. We have sex maybe twice or three times a year. It makes me feel horrible, I've never dealt with this before and I'm so young I didn't ever in my wildest dreams think this would happen especially at my age. I can't imagine what our sex life we be like at 50 .. Probably completely non existent. I cry myself to sleep too often, I get denied too often I have talked to him about a thousand times, it actually the only thing we argue about. He says the same crap, why don't I try to start it (I thought I was) or he says I want to have sex too late at night. It's absurd. I even told him I was going to leave that I can't do this anymore and he said he would try .. Still nothing not even on my birthday. We went on a cruise for his bday to the Bahamas that I planned and nope no sex there either. We stayed at an amazing resort in boca for over a week, nothing. I even tried to get him in the shower with me .. Nothing. I totally initiated when we were at the pool alone at night ... Nothing he practically said NO to my face. I know he's not cheating which almost makes this worse. I feel totally unwanted , ugly , like there's something wrong with me. I have tried the sexy lingerie, making a romantic dinner with candles, getting all dressed up, fav perfume, great makeup everything. For his bday I gave him special made cards that basically said "free blowjobs whenever u want just use this card" - it has been 2 years and he has not used it once ! Can someone tell me what to do :( I'm desperate and depressed over this. Oh and remember I'm freaking 23! This body and sex drove will NOT last forever. We started dating when I was 17.
January 9, 2016 - 3:58amThis Comment
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