Facebook Pixel

Comment Reply

EmpowHER Guest
Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

I am a gay man. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for just over a year now. I feel your pain and frustration. It is heartbreaking and painful to feel like we are no longer wanted sexually or not worth the time. I feel that our sex life dwindled within the first few months of dating and then after moving to New York it has become even less frequent and there is ALWAYS a reason that we don’t have sex. It never happens spontaneously, even when he tells me we are going to it still doesn’t happen. That hurts even more. It gets me excited and feel like things are going to be ok, only to feel even more let down than before. The other night this happened. He woke up in the morning and asked me if we could have sex that night. I agreed of course. I came home from work, tried striking up a conversation, only to be treated like I was interrupting his show. Then he went into bed and got on his phone. I did not even get the vibes that he was even in the mood. He finally put the phone down and I tried making moves on him, only to be told, “you waited too long and I’m tired now”. I was crushed.

November 13, 2019 - 2:21pm

Reply

Image CAPTCHA
Enter the characters shown in the image.
By submitting this form, you agree to EmpowHER's terms of service and privacy policy