Welcome to EmpowHER. You definitely need to discuss with him your concerns and let him know how you feel about this. Maybe he can open up a little more and explain what might be going through his mind. It's not a normal behavior, especially if he has been sexually active before. If you can not come to an agreement, you should seek psychotherapy before getting into a marriage. This can eventually get worst with time and cause more problems while married. Hope this was helpful?