When someone makes "glib" comments like, "So, that person lost their child in a fire? Well, they can have more." RUN, do not walk, away. No matter how funny, charming, or exciting the individual might seem, they are not what they seem. They aren't "human," on any level. They have targeted you because you have something that they do not: money, charm, talent, education, sex, beauty, attention, awards, spirituality, conscience, compassion, empathy, etc. And, they hate you for it. So, because they can't create any of these things on their own, they will do anything that they can to tear you down, tear you apart, and leave you wondering what train just ran you over.