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Hello and than you for sharing your question.

Having sex for the first time is not painful as long as you do these two things.

1. Make sure you are properly lubricated.  Your body produces a natural lubricant when you are aroused, but sometimes it is necessary to use additional lubrication.  You can use oils or choose any lubricants sold at the grocery store or drug store or even sex shop.  You can also do a search online for quality lubricants.

2. Stay relaxed and trust your partner!  Since boyfriend is more experienced and he cares for you, feel comfortable to communicate what you are feeling while having sex.

The more you education yourself about having sex the more comfortable you will be to do it.  I understand your concerns doing something you have no experience with, also with the idea that it will be painful.  But I can assure you that you do not need to go into it blind.  So go online and research until you feel confident.

Faith

May 10, 2015 - 6:42pm

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