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I appreciate you helping me thru this and it is really helping. I'm leaving for about two weeks very soon and I'm hoping that gives me enough time to get my mind collected and to have a plan on how to go us on what I need to do. The hard thing is I have been raped and I have never wanted to have sex or make love untill I met him. And even tho he knows what happen to me but not in detail. And I guess that' hurts because I have shared with him what some of the things iv been Thu and he still won't open up to me .And I feel extremely hurt that he downt want me the way I want him bc it reminds me of my past when I dreaded having sex and was forced to all the time.I guess it hurts that he dosnt trust me like I do him. And it's so hard for me to try to push it on him because I feel like I'm doing to him what people have done to me.And I guess I try to really ignore the situation and try not to think about it cuz then once I do I get so depressed. I know I need to be strong and to keep after him on this issue but I think I'm going to need guidance. The first few weeks he did get hard and into it to a point but I always said we need to stop. And once I got to the point that I trusted him and said let's do it everything changed. He like shut himself down from me. But this is also around the same time his mother passed away and I know he didn't take that well. But now it's like no matter what he won't even get hard and I feel like if he starts to he then pulls himself back and makes himself get soft again. And he has tried pills and testosterone stuff and it didn't really make a difference. I want to give this relationship another chance and really do everything I can to try to make it work I just need guidance in what I should be doing or saying or how to push him. ?

September 23, 2015 - 5:15pm

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