Show genuine concern and sensitivity toward him. For example, get a baby-sitter, go somewhere you know he will like, be sweet, tell him you love him and have noticed he's been low and struggling. This will prove to him that you see him, you care about him.
That may be all it takes for him to open up to you and tell you his true struggles. That's the first step. After he tells you, then you will have a clearer picture of how to solve the problem.
Not that he should feel sorry for himself at all, since you're doing all the bread-winning, but keep in mind that a new baby sometimes takes all the attention and husbands can also feel neglected in their own home just as mother's can.
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Show genuine concern and sensitivity toward him. For example, get a baby-sitter, go somewhere you know he will like, be sweet, tell him you love him and have noticed he's been low and struggling. This will prove to him that you see him, you care about him.
September 20, 2015 - 6:58pmThat may be all it takes for him to open up to you and tell you his true struggles. That's the first step. After he tells you, then you will have a clearer picture of how to solve the problem.
Not that he should feel sorry for himself at all, since you're doing all the bread-winning, but keep in mind that a new baby sometimes takes all the attention and husbands can also feel neglected in their own home just as mother's can.
Faith
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