I have a similar situation to that. '
I'm married, love my husband, especially since he has a new haircut, I am super attracted to him. He would have sex every night if he wasn't working, but, because he is too tired sometimes, we usually have sex every other night, twice.
First time is very short, the second, since it's more difficult for him to climax, it lasts too long for me, and I get distracted in the mean time, and get drier. Since we're trying to have kids, the second time is much better after he ejaculates inside me, obvy. But the first time, especially if it's the next night, I mean, if we've had sex the previous night, it's just so impossible for me to get wet (and I also think, I might be wrong, that when you feel aroused, the vaginal canal gets wider). I also notice that I'm tight down there. Sometimes, if we've argued that night, unless we talk about our problems, I don't want to be touched, but that's his way of saying I'm sorry, let's be Ok again. He initiates sex.
I want to ask specifically about the after effect of having sex while your body refuses or is not ready. I feel sore down there, I don't wanna touch it, let alone have sex. I don't wanna drink anything, because there's a slight pain while urinating, and I'm in the middle of healing from cervical inflammation. The gynecologist said my cervix is fine, since I did take some medication. When I talked to her about my pain, she gave me a cream that I used, and it feels even more inflammed. I feel like there's a big difference from the burning sensation an the soreness. It doesn't feel like I wanna scratch it, it doesn't feel inflammed (originaly, before using the cream), it feels sore, tired, it feels like it wants to be left alone until it heals.
I am making this long explanation of my situation, because these are not things I can tell my gyno, and she would understand, since I live in a foreign country, and there's a language barrier. So, it feels like my vaginal canal is sore, tired, put off from any activity, touching, I don't even want to use the bathroom, I just wanna lie down all day. Can somebody please help?! Please!
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I have a similar situation to that. '
November 10, 2015 - 5:45pmI'm married, love my husband, especially since he has a new haircut, I am super attracted to him. He would have sex every night if he wasn't working, but, because he is too tired sometimes, we usually have sex every other night, twice.
First time is very short, the second, since it's more difficult for him to climax, it lasts too long for me, and I get distracted in the mean time, and get drier. Since we're trying to have kids, the second time is much better after he ejaculates inside me, obvy. But the first time, especially if it's the next night, I mean, if we've had sex the previous night, it's just so impossible for me to get wet (and I also think, I might be wrong, that when you feel aroused, the vaginal canal gets wider). I also notice that I'm tight down there. Sometimes, if we've argued that night, unless we talk about our problems, I don't want to be touched, but that's his way of saying I'm sorry, let's be Ok again. He initiates sex.
I want to ask specifically about the after effect of having sex while your body refuses or is not ready. I feel sore down there, I don't wanna touch it, let alone have sex. I don't wanna drink anything, because there's a slight pain while urinating, and I'm in the middle of healing from cervical inflammation. The gynecologist said my cervix is fine, since I did take some medication. When I talked to her about my pain, she gave me a cream that I used, and it feels even more inflammed. I feel like there's a big difference from the burning sensation an the soreness. It doesn't feel like I wanna scratch it, it doesn't feel inflammed (originaly, before using the cream), it feels sore, tired, it feels like it wants to be left alone until it heals.
I am making this long explanation of my situation, because these are not things I can tell my gyno, and she would understand, since I live in a foreign country, and there's a language barrier. So, it feels like my vaginal canal is sore, tired, put off from any activity, touching, I don't even want to use the bathroom, I just wanna lie down all day. Can somebody please help?! Please!
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