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Bleeding after penetration whether by the penis or with fingers is usually caused by friction on the cervix. Its common to bleed the first time (or few times) a girl receives penetration. In the future to avoid bleeding, use a hypoallergenic, water-based lubricant.
The vaginal bleeding you are experiencing could also be the beginning of your period.
I also want to say; don't feel bad about refusing to have intercourse with your boyfriend. He does not have any right to get mad about that, because its your body or your decision. Try to help him understand by staying firm in what makes you comfortable. Don't cave when he pressures you. You don't owe him any more explanation than you simply don't want to get pregnant. If you want to compromise, you can always use a condom.
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Hello and welcome to EmpowHer,
June 4, 2016 - 10:14amBleeding after penetration whether by the penis or with fingers is usually caused by friction on the cervix. Its common to bleed the first time (or few times) a girl receives penetration. In the future to avoid bleeding, use a hypoallergenic, water-based lubricant.
The vaginal bleeding you are experiencing could also be the beginning of your period.
I also want to say; don't feel bad about refusing to have intercourse with your boyfriend. He does not have any right to get mad about that, because its your body or your decision. Try to help him understand by staying firm in what makes you comfortable. Don't cave when he pressures you. You don't owe him any more explanation than you simply don't want to get pregnant. If you want to compromise, you can always use a condom.
Faith
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