Thank you, Helena. The first thing I did was to give him tons of space. (He had a lot to begin with.) Then I thought to myself that he probably feels like he has no control - over his body and me doing everything for him. So, I gave him control over all household/financial decisions while still doing the chores he can't do. We are barely talking. I don't want to get yelled at, or get that huge sigh, so the less I talk - the less likely I am to get those responses. I have always done SO MUCH for everyone in my life, and I hate that all I get in return is ungratefulness.