We thank you for sharing your story with us. I'm sorry you are going through this. It's very hard to be the caregiver for a very ill person. Certainly, people should not judge you as they are not living your life. I'm sure you are doing the best you can do given the situation. No matter how ill a person is (I sympathize with your husband's situation also) it does not make it right to be unkind or abusive to the person caring for them (which has more to do with the illness than the person in some cases).
We have a thread you might be interested. There are many simar stories there. Copy/paste the link below. You can also search our site for support groups on this subject.
I hope things will get better for you (and your husband). Keep us updated.
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Hello, Kellijolong.
We thank you for sharing your story with us. I'm sorry you are going through this. It's very hard to be the caregiver for a very ill person. Certainly, people should not judge you as they are not living your life. I'm sure you are doing the best you can do given the situation. No matter how ill a person is (I sympathize with your husband's situation also) it does not make it right to be unkind or abusive to the person caring for them (which has more to do with the illness than the person in some cases).
We have a thread you might be interested. There are many simar stories there. Copy/paste the link below. You can also search our site for support groups on this subject.
I hope things will get better for you (and your husband). Keep us updated.
https://www.empowher.com/community/ask/living-and-possibly-leaving-sick-spouse-heartfelt-story-reader-looking-advice
Best,
Helena
August 17, 2018 - 1:29pmThis Comment
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