Hello! I am currently in a simular situation.My husband tries to control me! He gets angry when I try to stand up for myself.We have 3 daughter's and the 3rd daughter is 9 months old we haven't had sex in over a year and a half because he thought me being pregnant was disgusting.He now says that I am fat(i wear a size 6) I used to wear a 3-4. I don't have any stretch marks it looks as if I haven't had a child at all.But that is way of trying to make me insecure.He was charged with physical abuse before and went to counseling but since he can't put his hands on me, he uses verbal and mental abuse.I just started my own business and he tries to leave me at home with the kids to keep tabs on me.I can't network because I am left at home with the kids.Also, he telss me how he hopes my business fails and I am sorry! I wash all of the clothes, cook, clean and he doesn't do anything I also work at an orthodontic office 3 days a week in order to start my business.(it used to be 5 days a week) everytime we argue he always say that he pays the rent but I pay the 600 daycare and my carnote cellphone diapers some food and other things. he was caught cheating and caught a disease recently but of course that was my fault! I don't know how but he said that I don't support him. he was out of work for 2 years and I took care of things but you know how double standards work! I was on maternity leave and he treated me as if I had no right to be home! he leaves stuff all around the house and tells me it is my place to clean up after him because he pays the rent!I am fed up, I am leaving!
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Hello! I am currently in a simular situation.My husband tries to control me! He gets angry when I try to stand up for myself.We have 3 daughter's and the 3rd daughter is 9 months old we haven't had sex in over a year and a half because he thought me being pregnant was disgusting.He now says that I am fat(i wear a size 6) I used to wear a 3-4. I don't have any stretch marks it looks as if I haven't had a child at all.But that is way of trying to make me insecure.He was charged with physical abuse before and went to counseling but since he can't put his hands on me, he uses verbal and mental abuse.I just started my own business and he tries to leave me at home with the kids to keep tabs on me.I can't network because I am left at home with the kids.Also, he telss me how he hopes my business fails and I am sorry! I wash all of the clothes, cook, clean and he doesn't do anything I also work at an orthodontic office 3 days a week in order to start my business.(it used to be 5 days a week) everytime we argue he always say that he pays the rent but I pay the 600 daycare and my carnote cellphone diapers some food and other things. he was caught cheating and caught a disease recently but of course that was my fault! I don't know how but he said that I don't support him. he was out of work for 2 years and I took care of things but you know how double standards work! I was on maternity leave and he treated me as if I had no right to be home! he leaves stuff all around the house and tells me it is my place to clean up after him because he pays the rent!I am fed up, I am leaving!
July 5, 2008 - 11:14pmThis Comment
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