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does it hurt to have sex?

By March 30, 2013 - 10:29pm
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Im not loosing my virginity till marriage, but when i was at the gynecologist my doctor checked to see if i was swelling down there. When she did it really hurt i cryed and strained because i was swollen down there. Then it got me thinking, how bad does it really hurt when you have sex? Is it a pinch and then its over or does it hurt the whole time your having sex?

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Oh ok, thank you. Just does it hurt to have sex for the first time?

March 31, 2013 - 4:12pm
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Hi Lizzy,

Thank you for your question. Having sexual relations and going to the doctor are two different things. I am certain that any woman could tell you that they do not enjoy the objects that the doctors put into our vaginal areas. Do not concern yourself that they are the same - as they are not. Wait until marriage as sex can always wait! Good luck.


March 31, 2013 - 6:58am
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