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What do you do if you have never had sex but you haven't had your period for about 32 days?

By May 17, 2009 - 8:36pm
 
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I am almost 14 years old. It may seem weird that I am on a website to ask about my lady problems but my mother and sister are no help and my dad, well, he is my dad. I have had my period for over a year and from then to now I have kept an accurate record of when I have gotten and when I have ended my menstrual cycle. Since January or December of this year (well not December, but ya) I have gotten my period on the 16th. It is now may and I expected to get my period yesterday but it didn't come. Hopefully I thought it would come today but it didn't. I am now really worried because I know I can't be pregnant since I have never had sex and it doesn't seem normal today to have not of had your period in 32 days. I have no idea what to do except to just wait and stress myself out. Please help me because I am not sure if this is just normal or if I am really going crazy.

Thank you very much,

A. N. W.

(don't laugh at me my parent's didn't mean to name me after a root beer company.)

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Anonymous

As I read everyone's comments, you all are 13/14, yet I am 12 and have the same questions. I haven't had my period symptoms or blood in 2 months and I am starting to get worried along with my mom. I am thinking since I am Christian, so I gave up hot chips for Lintel. I'm thinking it's because I haven't been eating like I did when I was having my periods. Also, it might not be that so Ya. overall, I am 12, haven't had my periods and am getting really worried. |bye|

April 1, 2015 - 4:19pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

You are fine I am 20 years old you are all just starting. It has nothing to do with what you eat or your religion. Everyone's different, but one thing that is always same with women, is that when you first start your period, it is not going to be regular. It takes time for your body to get on to a cycle or routine. Take it from someone who has dealt with it. What you can do is have someone take you to an obgyn and get check and see about getting on birth control. It will help regulate your period

July 10, 2015 - 10:21pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

Hi I am 12 years old never had sex of course that would just be very wrong. Okay now right from the start in March of 2015 I got my first period and it's been on a regular basis since then. I haven't gotten my period yet and it's a week past due. Should I be worried?

September 23, 2015 - 8:48am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

Hi I am 12 years old never had sex of course that would just be very wrong. Okay now right from the start in March of 2015 I got my first period and it's been on a regular basis since then. I haven't gotten my period yet and it's a week past due. Should I be worried?

September 23, 2015 - 3:58am
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Anonymous

I'm 14 , I've never had sex and around the time I shouldve gotten my period I had the symptoms (cramps , etc.) And anyways I never got my period .. and now after missing one period it's around the time I should have it again and idk if it's going to come .. is this normal ?

March 29, 2015 - 11:50am
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Anonymous

I am currently 14 years old, and I had sex for the first time by accident with my boyfriend, and he pulled it out before he ejaculated, but I'm scared I might be pregnant because of the pre-ejaculation. I got my period last month 23rd of February 2015 and February has only 28 days, and right now it's 24 of March, and I still didn't get my period, I'm really scared, what exactly are pre-ejeculation? I don't want to get pregnant yet, I really love going to school, help me, what should I do?

March 24, 2015 - 2:33am
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TELL UT PARENTS! ASK FOR HELP BEFORE ITS TOO LATE!

July 10, 2015 - 9:46pm
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TELL UT PARENTS! ASK FOR HELP BEFORE ITS TOO LATE!

July 10, 2015 - 9:46pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

Did he use a condom?

May 2, 2015 - 6:23am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

If you still haven't goten it by now then you should be worried. My mom (who is 47)has pregnantcy testes in the bathroom, so maybe your mom doestoo. Ik ewww, but if she does take the test and go from there. I hope this helped I'm only 15 but I just wanted to help:)

April 15, 2015 - 2:47pm
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