Most of us need to work; it's a simple fact of life. Even those among us who can afford not to often do; either in day jobs which bring home enough to help pad the savings or in volunteer capacities. We need to work to support ourselves and our families and, emotionally, we need to work because we need to feel useful, productive, and part of the fabric of society.
Study after study has been done to prove that once people are laid off, unemployment can become so psychologically debilitating that maintaining your core belief in your own inherent value is just as challenging as finding another job.
But what do we know, really, about the intense need for play?
We often view playing as frivolous, fun, but unnecessary. We tell our children "go play" as if they are silly and we are serious and important.
But playing, as Maria Montessori pointed out so many years ago and what her philosophy is founded on, is the work of children. Playing is how they figure out who they are, develop their skills, interests and abilities, learn to cooperate and negotiate with other children, learn to pace themselves.
Adults, too, need play in their lives. Work-life balance is a real need for people; we can't work 24 hours a day and still retain a sense of peace, stability or emotional health. A wonderful article about this can be found here: http://firstthings.org/page/media/the-family-column/the-importance-of-play-for-adults
What's more, playing can help you regain your sense of perspective, putting the old, stressful patterns back where they belong: in one aspect of yourself and your psyche and not dominating your entire being.
It's also a gift to others in your life, especially family members and children, to model an ability to play, to laugh, to let go and to use your imagination.
If we're always stressed and worried, upset and fretting, tired and overwhelmed, how do we communicate the joy of life or a capacity for love and light, happiness and freedom to those around us?
Play rejuvenates and restores us. Letting workers have breaks and time for family actually makes them more productive, according to many employers. Play restores mental, physical and psychological health.
So, this summer, focus on play. Get out and run around a park, not because you feel you have to, but because there's a dog and a Frisbee and someone playing the guitar.
Jump into the ocean or a lake, a pool or a river and lay around on your back. Play kickball with a bunch of kids. Wrestle with your significant other. Play music loudly in your living room and dance for an hour.
Play harder than you work for a few months, and see what starts to develop.
Aimee Boyle is a teacher and writer in CT. She is a regular contributor to EmpowHER.
Edited by Alison Stanton