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New boyfriend and baby ideas?

By May 24, 2011 - 8:26pm

I am about to be 19 years old and my boyfriend just turned 21. We both want a long term steady relationship. We were looking at coupons and he saw a diaper coupon and he looked at the page rubbed his finger down the babies face in the picture and said "I really want a baby" looked at me and smiled.

Does this mean, hey get off your birth control pills n lets have a baby or am i reading too much into this?

*We have been dating for about 3 weeks
Which I know is too soon to have a baby with someone but.. I don't know how I can just ask him about it either..?

By December 2, 2011 - 5:29pm

Susan is right. Three weeks is way too soon to be discussing babies with your boyfriend. He was probably just having some "new relationship" fun with you and possibly got caught up in a moment. When my boyfriend and I started dating he told me a week later that he wanted to marry me. I almost had a heart attack right then and there! LOL.

I knew at the time that he was just experiences the "first time I fell in love" endorphines and couldn't possibly mean it so I never bought it up again. Now a year and a half later when he talks about marriage it has a much more serious and "future" tone to it. He still wants to marry me (thank God) but now he's actually looking at it the way that you are supposed to look at it instead of just..."i'm so infatuated with you that i want to get married!"

December 2, 2011 - 5:29pm

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