Hi Susan,

Sorry for late reply, Susan because I went to a short trip to relax my mind and head.

I have no idea who did this to me. Yes, I did. I've told one of my teachers all about my story and suprisingly, she said she also had been bullied like me in her young age. And she said don't be afraid and be strong.She also said whoever wanna let me down are the jealous type and they did that to me cuz I'm above of them. I suddenly feel that I'm not alone on this kind of situation and you know what..it's really make my worry and scary mind calm down.

Moreover, I just found out some inspiring stories on thinkpositive.com and one of its stories inspires me to move on because you only live once,right? And I wanna share that story to all of the ladies like me out there as per following;

Pls read this small story; Hope that makes a BIG change in YOU

The Professor began his class by holding up a glass with some water in it. He held it up for all to see & asked the students “How much do you think this glass weighs?”

’50gms!’….. ’100gms!’ …..’125gms’ …the students answered.
“I really don’t know unless I weigh it,” said the professor, “but, my question is:
What would happen if I held it up like this for a few minutes?”
‘Nothing’ …..the students said.
‘Ok what would happen if I held it up like this for an hour?’ the professor asked.
‘Your arm would begin to ache’ said one of the student
“You’re right, now what would happen if I held it for a day?”
“Your arm could go numb; you might have severe muscle stress & paralysis & have to go to hospital for sure!”
….. Ventured another student & all the students laughed
“Very good.
But during all this, did the weight of the glass change?” Asked the professor.
‘No’…. Was the answer.
“Then what caused the arm ache & the muscle stress?”
The students were puzzled.
“What should I do now to come out of pain?” asked professor again.
“Put the glass down!” said one of the students
“Exactly!” said the professor.
Life’s problems are something like this.
Hold it for a few minutes in your head & they seem OK.
Think of them for a long time & they begin to ache.
Hold it even longer & they begin to paralyze you. You will not be able to do anything.

It’s important to think of the challenges or problems in your life, But EVEN MORE IMPORTANT is to ‘PUT THEM DOWN’ at the end of every day before you go to sleep…
That way, you are not stressed, you wake up every day fresh &strong & can handle any issue, any challenge that comes your way!

So, when you start your day today, Remember friend to ‘PUT THE GLASS DOWN TODAY! ‘

Now, I try to train myself to be stronger and to have more confidence and to believe in myself. I wish all ladies out there could have those stronger mind and make a big change in their lives.

Wish you all the best,Susan! Please keep in touch.

With best wishes,
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Thank you so much, Susan!

Yes, I have my friends I can talk with. But,all of them are working and we rarely meet since we've got our jobs. But hey, I have my EmpowerHER family, right? Moreover, I would like to ask you a few advice.
Some people who know me called me and asked me about that after they saw that stupid video. Since I've tried to forget and keep those abuse away, I really don't want to talk about that to those people over and over again. Because it makes me remind of bad memory and those scary and confusion overwhelm me again. So, could you please give me some advice how to avoid those things? Should I block all the phone numbers except the most important numbers ? Should I change my contact numbers? How should I do to keep those people away from me?

Thank you so much again for your birthday wish for me. I really appriciate it, Susan.

Best wishes,
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Dear Susan ,

Thank you so much for your support. I really appreciate it.

At first, I was so scared and didn't know what to do. All I did was crying all day and thinking about why did those people do this to me? We even didn't know each other and why they did those things to me purposely. So many thoughts were running through my minds and I can't stop them. I had so many tough days though.

But, I am doing great and things are getting better now. I finally gain my strength back because of all the good people around me including all of you who are supporting me and trusting in me no matter what. You all are like my family. I have now deactivated my facebook account for a while and try to ignore those things and those kind of people. Whatever they did to try and make me down, depress, scared and destroy my life, I won't let them do to me anymore. Cuz I gain my smile and confidence back cuz of all of you. I try to be strong and you all are my strength now.

Thanks again for your support and worrying for me, Susan. Pls,keep in touch and I will update you how things are going with me, too. I am so happy and glad that I have found my truely family and that's EmpoewerHER is my family now.

Best wishes,
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