My boyfriend and I moved in together for the first time before that he lived with his parents, so we could never be intimate that often, be we longed for it. I thought that once we move in together, we could be a lot more intimate... but now its been over 2 months and he just wont even touch me, he wont caress me or woe me or try anything! We've talked about it and he said he is stressed sometimes and feeling depressed because he can't find a good career that he is feeling sad and unmotivated, also he said that I should be trying to make him interested in me by dressing up sexy and all.... (I've tried that but its exhausting! I'm not an escort girl) Now We love each other and does not mistreat me but I have my needs too and it seems like he's ok without any sex or any intimacy. I feel like it's just going to get worse and worse... should I still want to marry this kind of person?? Intimacy and sex is just as important as Love to me.
I feel so abandoned by him and we don''t have much money to spend on counseling... Please help!