My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 2 years. Up until a few months ago our sex life was great. We would both be satisfied and we would make love several times a day. Now it is very different with us. We dont make love as often....like 2-3 times a week if that. And 95% of the time I am left unsatisfied and feeling hurt. He doesnt even make an attempt to take care of me before, during, or after. Either I have to take care of myself or go without. It feels like he is out to get his and I dont get anything. I'm not saying our love making is horrible...it is actually good. I just dont climax as often as I used to when we first got together. I have sat and talked this out with him about it. He doesnt seem to understand it sometimes. There are nights where I just want to please him and thats all I want. But I guess what I'm asking is how do I get him to do that for me without me having to beg him to do it. I'm tired of feeling stupid for begging or even feeling hurt when I dont get "mine". What can we do or try so that we are both satisfied?