I have been with my boyfriend now for about 10 months.
At first things between us were very sensual and close. But in the last few months he has become distant and moody. I know he is having financial difficulties and struggling at university but I am so worried that he is just simply not attracted to me anymore.
Sometimes he make little comments, say for example, the other night he stated that my arm was fatter than his. And he's always on my back about doing more exercise. Now i suffer from Lupus SLE which leaves me absolutely exhausted at times and not much time in my life for extra exercise, he knows this too but seems to forget that a lot.
I have had weight issues since i was a young girl and in my late twenties I decided i wasn't going to let my weight get to meanymore. I consider myself reasonably healthy with a few extra kilos and I'm not extremly unhappy with the way i look. I still feel sexy and still get "checked out" every now and then.
So i keep telling myself that it's not the fact he's not attracted to me but that he is suffering from some form of depression. And because he's not happy, he, without realising takes it out on me.
Anon.