I don't have children. I'm not married. My boyfriend and I have only been together for less then 2 years. I'm perfectly healthy. I have a healthy opinion of myself(inner, outer beauty). I'm physically healthy. By all accounts my past has never bothered me before and I don't believe it to be the issue now. I love my boyfriend with every beat of my heart but I don't want to have sex with him, or anyone else for that matter. I sleep well, exercise often, eat healthy and he and I have awesome communication. What the hell is wrong with me? I enjoy sex! Hell, I LOVE sex! I've only been with 2 men, my ex and my current and I had both tested before I touched (I have a STI phobia:), I'm a regular with my gynecologist. I'm happier now then I ever have been! Why do I never, and I mean never, want to have sex?
At the beginning of our relationship it was every other day (sometimes a few days in between for healing purposes) but now he wants me and I'd rather make excuses and "wash my hair" every 30 seconds. Help. I love him, I want this to last.