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21 year old female, using Nuva Ring, and I have no sexdrive :(

By August 16, 2010 - 1:16pm
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I don't have children. I'm not married. My boyfriend and I have only been together for less then 2 years. I'm perfectly healthy. I have a healthy opinion of myself(inner, outer beauty). I'm physically healthy. By all accounts my past has never bothered me before and I don't believe it to be the issue now. I love my boyfriend with every beat of my heart but I don't want to have sex with him, or anyone else for that matter. I sleep well, exercise often, eat healthy and he and I have awesome communication. What the hell is wrong with me? I enjoy sex! Hell, I LOVE sex! I've only been with 2 men, my ex and my current and I had both tested before I touched (I have a STI phobia:), I'm a regular with my gynecologist. I'm happier now then I ever have been! Why do I never, and I mean never, want to have sex?

At the beginning of our relationship it was every other day (sometimes a few days in between for healing purposes) but now he wants me and I'd rather make excuses and "wash my hair" every 30 seconds. Help. I love him, I want this to last.

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MissKtana - You're not alone in this concern, and good information could be helpful. You will find articles and questions from other women dealing with low libido on our sexual well-being page at:https://www.empowher.com/condition/sexual-well-being/treatments Look around the section a bit and let us know if you find information that helps.
Good luck to you! Pat

August 16, 2010 - 6:02pm
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