Hi, Iv been with my boyfriend for 7 years now, we where having sex on a regular basis until 4 months ago, in this 7 years we have split for a year and a half but we where still having sex, it didnt stop. He went down the route of doing a lot of cocaine and drink in that time we split but it still didnt affect our sex life until 4 months ago, we havent had sex in that 4 months we he is willing to do other things, he says his reason for not having sex is his confidence , but what i dont understand is he is happy for me to go down on him and hes happy to do the same with me, but not having sex is playing on my mind, as there is no intimacy between us and its really getting me down, i think the drug taking has a lot to do with it, or is this just an excuse! Iv asked if there is anything i can do to help and he says nothing! I dont know what to do anymore really needs all your help! 7 years is a long time considering im only 22yrs old. I want to let go but i feel like if i was id be turning my back on him if he really does have a problem. Please help. xx