My boyfriend is 11 years older than me, and weve been together almost 2 years. In the beginning we had sex multiple times a week. Lately hes been ignoring my advances. Its not that we NEVER have sex but its only about once a week. I recently saw in our computer history that he had visited a porn site, and he laughed it off. Could this be a culprit of his lessening interest? I know that after time your sex life looses some excitment, but I never thought that he would ignore me when i was trying to initiate it. I do know that he is stressed out about work and money, and I know that plays a role, and I have also put on id say 10 pounds since we started dating, he also has gained about 10 lbs. I Just wonder what the key reason is and if there is anything I can do to help it?
So Frusterated.