Improved
6112 HealthChanged
3785 LivesSaved
3568 Lives0 lives impacted in the last 24 hrs Learn More
My boyfriend is 11 years older than me, and weve been together almost 2 years. In the beginning we had sex multiple times a week. Lately hes been ignoring my advances. Its not that we NEVER have sex but its only about once a week. I recently saw in our computer history that he had visited a porn site, and he laughed it off. Could this be a culprit of his lessening interest? I know that after time your sex life looses some excitment, but I never thought that he would ignore me when i was trying to initiate it. I do know that he is stressed out about work and money, and I know that plays a role, and I have also put on id say 10 pounds since we started dating, he also has gained about 10 lbs. I Just wonder what the key reason is and if there is anything I can do to help it?
So Frusterated.
All user-generated information on this site is the opinion of its author only and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment for any medical conditions. Members and guests are responsible for their own posts and the potential consequences of those posts detailed in our Terms of Service.
Add a Comment1 Comments
Hi Anonymous,
I think you may have answered your own question. Stress about jobs, money, etc. can certainly be a sex killer. Secondly, having sex once a week is actually a lot in a common relationship which is possibly once a month....consider yourself lucky.
If you are concerned, talk to him. The best answer you can get is from him as to why he may be a little stand-off-ish but try not to blame him for resisting sex. As you said, there are some stresses in his life and this is the number one reason why couples may no longer be intimate.
Good luck and keep us updated.
January 29, 2011 - 9:51amMissie
This Comment