After 'grooming' one day i propositioned my husband for sex. I was naked and noticed that my husband didn't realise i groomed. Trying not to think anything of it we had sex and he still didn't notice, after he did but by then i felt used and really sad. My husband never makes me feel ugly and he frequently tells me im beautiful. I dont know if im making a big deal about nothing because i am not happy with my body (im adjusting to my post pregnancy figure) :-(