I am 23 my boyfriend is 35. There is quite an age difference between us and even in the beggining we werent having sex a ton. We have been together over a yr now and there were days we would have sex a couple times sure...but now im lucky if I get it once a week. He used to be heavy into drugs which makes it difficult for him to perform bit in the beggining he just managed. Now there is always an excuse. Hes tired. Doesnt feel good ect. We have discussed it once or twice but he wont try viagra or anything like that and claims it isnt me. I m inlove with him. Very attracted to him. Want sex all the time but he doesnt. And when we do it doeant seem like he is very into it. I dont think hes cheating and I dont want to leave him but its hurting our realtionship. I dont have people to talk to aboit this and im looking for help. I dont want it to be the end of us. Wht can I do? How can I talk to him more about it? Get him to understand its really affecting us? Although he bt ells me it isnt me I feel as though it is and it hurts