I dont know where to go from here. I have finaly after year of dating found the most perfect guy I thought. We have been dating for a year now and live together. He is now 41 and I am 32.The firts three months we had a good sexual relationship but then he lost his work contract . He was without work for about three months. The work he does now is also very stressfull and he is on the road alot and works long hours. We have probably had sex 5 times in the last six months. I have started to eat more and gained wait I think because I feel neglected and unsexy. We have had a few talks about this and he asures me it will come right, that he is just stressed..but its killing me. I know there is mor to a relationship but it is a whole chain event and I am so depressed. What to do??