When my boyfriend and I started dating, I was 18 years old. And let me tell you, I always wanted sex. He could not give me enough. Every free moment was sex, sex and more sex. As we dated longer and I got a little older (19, 20) it became more loving and it wasnt all about sex. We still had sex quite often but not multiple times a day like we had been. Now at 21 years old, almost 22, I find that I dont want to have sex at all. I feel like something is wrong. I love him and I am still attracted to him but when it comes to him kissing me, or touching me, nothing happens. I dont get stimulated, I dont get aroused, nothing! We still have sex, of course because he has needs but when we do I feel like its a chore and its not something I really want to do. I want it to be over and done with in 5 minutes and ask him the whole time, "are you close, are you about to come?" Well, naturally he feels unwanted and turned off by me asking him this. I dont know whats wrong with me. I want to feel aroused, and I want to be turned on and not feel like its a "chore" or "effort" but for some reason I cant. I had more of a sex drive on birth control and anti depressants then I do now off the anti-depressants. My birth control hasnt changed in over two years. And he hasnt done anything to push me away or cause me to love him less. If anything, I love him more and want him more then ever. Whats wrong with me? Help!