My boyfriend and i have been together for9 months. He works 7 days a week as he has done since we've met. We use to make love all the time and now he doesn't seem as affectionate or want to make love to me. he holds me at night and tells me he loves me all the time..i know for a fact he isn't cheating..but he makes no effort to have sex and when we do he rushes it. Sometimes ill roll over in the middle of the night and he'll be pleasuring hisself. i 've actually caught him in the act but didnt confront him right away. When i did ask a few days later why he takes care of it on his own when he knows i am more than willing anytime to do the deed..he denies doing it and gets angry..one time he said he does it in his sleep. which is not true. ive caught him wide awake. he use to want me by his side every second and couldnt wait to get my clothes off. i am crushed and feeling insecure and miss our love life. why is he doing this and what do i do? i feel so unattractive and feel like he has changed because the man i know gave me his attention every second of every day. now he avoids sex but never tells me no if i initiate it. im not very experienced in bed and havent slept around a lot and am wondering if he is dissappointed in my performance..he says hes not but then doesn't hesitate to do hisself when he is laying right next to me. We are also ten years apart in age. what could be his problem? please help me because i dont know what to do.