hello,
i am 30 year old women. i got married 6 months back. im still a virgin as both of us have problems when doing sex. actually, we tried a lot to have sex with each other. initially both of us had that drive towards each other but as the time went by , i felt like i have no desire at all for sex. i love him a lot and same is the case with him. i enjoy cuddling , kissing and doing all sorts of foreplays. but all those doesnt really make me wet or create all sexual desire. another problem we face is that whenever we tried to have sex, his penis always slips away from my vaginal entrance. i know that it sounds strange. i feel like his organ really big for my vaginal space. he always consoles me by saying vagina can strech to accomodate his penis but i really cant believe or feel any kind such elasticity there. we even tried ky jelly,xylocaine gel etc. nothing worked. it simply doesnt move inside when he pushes inside. is it because i have no sexual desire? would there be any change in the shape of vaginal space (were we do insertion) when i have sexual desire ??. i used to have sexual desires during the initial days but not anymore now? why is it so? is it hormonal change? what can i do now? please dont ask me to consult doctor. i really cant face anyone for this issue. PLEASE HELP ME. AWAITING ANSWER FOR THIS QUESTION.
Febi