hi my problem is my boy friend and i have been together for 5 months and we have know each other for a year and couple months now. well we have not had sex as yet because i get scared we do get involve in foreplay but when we get too far i tell him to stop he gets frustrated at times, i remember a time when we got a little to excited and he wanted to go further and i stopped him he told me he has to come really bad and he wanted us to to ave sex i told him no and he was a bit upset but eventually he apologized to me. we had a discussion the other day and i asked him why is has sex with other girls but still call me his girlfriend and he said he wants to stop but in order 2 stop i know wat to do which is ave sex with him but i think if he really loved me he would wait on me. im really afraid of the pain with sex as frenz of mine tell me about their first time, i just dont know what to do any more