My husband doesnt want to have sex with me,now i have a male friend who always wants me to give him bj all the time we have had sex a couple times but i told him since my husband doesnt want to any more ill find someone else.. really i should just get out of the marriage i fill bad with what i did,, but if my husband wont have sex with me and that other man wont then i need to be done with the other man.. and talk to my hubby see were he wants to go.. help me please what do i do???????????????