My husband doesnt want to have sex with me,now i have a male friend who always wants me to give him bj all the time we have had sex a couple times but i told him since my husband doesnt want to any more ill find someone else.. really i should just get out of the marriage i fill bad with what i did,, but if my husband wont have sex with me and that other man wont then i need to be done with the other man.. and talk to my hubby see were he wants to go.. help me please what do i do???????????????
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Hi Anon,
Welcome to EmpowHER. The fact your husband doesn't want to have sex with you, doesn't mean you should go out and cheat on him. If you feel he is not cheating on you either, many conditions such as stress and many other. Can cause a man to have low libido and no desire to have sex. You need to both talk and be honest with each other and if saving the marriage is worth it. He might need to start by seeing a doctor to check his hormone levels and then seek counseling for both of you.
Best,
Daisy
August 8, 2013 - 2:27amThis Comment
your right we have gone to marriage counseling we have talked i dont think hes cheating on me.thank you
August 8, 2013 - 3:43pmThis Comment