I am married to the man of my dreams. We met 3 years ago (we are in our 40's) and had an immediate connection. Our relationship has been like a fairy tale. Our sex life is great, none of the inhibitions or hang ups of our younger days so fully satisfying and in my opinion pretty frequent (generally 2-3 times a week). I do have a stronger sex drive than he does and we have discussed this. (NOTE: my previous over 20 year marriage was completely sexless for over 7 years - NO cheating!) It is not a problem for either of us really, I would add a time or two a week but am very satisfied with our current state - usually due to demands of job etc. Our sex life is also a bit creative and very fun - nothing over the top but definitely have discovered a new side of myself with him (we experiment together). Anyway, I just recently discovered a rather large number of porn pictures on his phone. His "old" phone he had had since before I even knew him and there were over 2000!!! He got a new phone 2 months ago and today I discovered over 300 on the new phone! I was a bit taken aback. I am not against porn in general - it is something we have never talked about together but we do send eachother long "stories" by email over several days just for fun etc... so I think I am pretty open minded but this confuses me. I don't understand the need for these pictures when we have talked about the fact that if he ever wants sex more than we are having it I am game!!! I want this man that I love dearly all the time! What should I do? Do I just let it go, do I tell him I looked and found them and I am a little bothered? NOTE: This is a man who keeps his phone with him 24/7 - he plays games on it etc - Also - I have never seen him "hide" anything on his phone so I am assuming he is downloading them at work or when I am out??? CONFUSED!!! I would appreciate comments from anyone on either side of the fence on this one!