Hi I'm 19 only had 1 boyfriend but also seen a few guys which i was sexualy active with. I met the nicest guy and keeps asking me if I'm a virgin and how far I've gone with my ex. I told him I have hooked up but not gone too far. Reason for me to not tell him the truth is because we have a turk is background and virginity is really a big thing for our background. He has that mentality whereas I don't. If tell him I'm not a virgin he will think bad of me and not want me . But I also don't wanna lie to the person I see myself with in the future... help ? I'm considering a hymen reconstruction?