Iv been with my boyfriend for 2 years. We moved in together at about 3 months of knowing each other. We used to have sex all the time. Then I got pregnant a few months later. He stoped. I was lucky if we had sex 1 time a month. He always says I'm tired, I'm not in the mood, or I just went to the bathroom. I feel like these are all excuses. Because he clearly doesn't mind if I do anything for him. Im the only one who makes the moves.. yet i get denied all the time. He states there is nothing wrong with me making all the moves.. but i feel like im making him... my doc even recommended sex to help get labor started and he still wouldnt.... Now he says hes scared ill get pregnant again. I tried telling him theres many ways to prevent it... But I get nothing in return. I know relationships shouldn't be based on sex.. but I feel so bad about my self.. am I now unattractive to him.. I feel so depressed . Iv tried talking to him and all he says is I'm sorry I'm tired or not in the mood.. and honestly I broke down crying the other day when I talked to him about it... in my opinion you need to make time.. it doesn't need to be everyday...
I mean come on... never?
I honestly feel like I'm begging all the time. Hey come shower with me. Hey do u want to do this or that. And always a no.
So I guess my question is how do I go about getting this resolved.. I don't want to leave him over it.. but I want things to change....