My boyfriend and i have been together for 7 months now. Everything is great (well except i would like to have sex a bit more than he does) He says its not about the sex its about spending quality time with me where we live in seperate towns and dont get to see each other ofter. Which is true and sweet BUT.....a few days ago i found he uses a sex 3d advatar sight. (and another site you can chat and flirt with people) You hear all the time of significant others using sex chat lines or porn sites. But why do people feel the need they need to do this when in a relationship? What is missing that they resort to this? I would do just about anything for him in or out of the bedroom and he knows this. And do you view this as a form of cheating since well its not physical per say but it does hurt like hell :-( I am the woman of his dreams he tells me but if i am WHY does he need to do that? (no he does not know i know any of this) I love him and he loves me and i know he does but this just hurts