Ive been with my partner for 5 years, have two children plus one on the way and have never had an orgasm with him. We've had a rocky relationship over the yeara and ive told him about this. I actually refuse to have sex now because he always gets to finish and then everything's over and im always left unsatisfied. As long as hes happy then i dont matter. I dont know what to do because it really is having a big impact on our relationship. He sees nothing wrong and im just there fantasizing about other men...its awful, I know :(