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Help! 5 years, 3 kids and still no orgasm :(

By Anonymous August 25, 2017 - 5:00am
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Ive been with my partner for 5 years, have two children plus one on the way and have never had an orgasm with him. We've had a rocky relationship over the yeara and ive told him about this. I actually refuse to have sex now because he always gets to finish and then everything's over and im always left unsatisfied. As long as hes happy then i dont matter. I dont know what to do because it really is having a big impact on our relationship. He sees nothing wrong and im just there fantasizing about other men...its awful, I know :(

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Hello Anonymous,

Welcome to EmpowHER. Thank you for reaching out to our community for help.

I am not expert, but do wonder if the strain in your relationship is source of your inability to have an orgasm. Quite a challenge to reach a pleasurable experience when you feel this way and he is not receptive to your needs.


August 25, 2017 - 9:10am
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