I'm a 31 year old woman who has been sexually active since I was 20. I have been able to reach orgasm solo since I was 12 with no issues. I've had several partners of the years but I have never once had an orgasm with any of them no matter now hard I try. I will feel like I'm getting close but then it just doesn't happen. I've never told a partner this and always have faked it. What's wrong with me?