Hi I am a 37 year old mother of 5(1 deseased)a wife of 19 years. I am currently concerned about my last couple period's beings I had a ligation done in 2010 but was told by my doctor after 5 years I could possibly get pregnant again. I came on in ,, July (regularly scheduled) missed august,came on in sept and now late for October,if I doesn't come on by the 31st should I be concerned? I'm hoping I'm not pregnant but having funny symptoms of tender breast,frequent urination and bloated feeling. Even tho my husband wants another baby and is looking into tubal reversal,I on the other hand am not looking to have anymore. What should I do?