I'm a newly married (see ladies, there's always hope), soon-to-be 60 year old,well therapized, and quite happy with life in general,woman.
But I don't reach an orgasm with my husband. I enjoy intercourse and
his touching or licking me feels great, but never great enough to reach an orgasm. The only way is if I touch myself while watching him; even then, it takes so long and it's such work that it almost doesn't pay. Now I have the kind of "performance anxiety" that some men must feel.I use estrogen cream for the dryness issue. I am on anti-depressants, but when I'm alone, if I get turned on by something,I masterbate and have a wonderful orgasm, better than ever.
So what should I do? My husband isn't at all upset, it's me that's bugged by all this. P.S. This is the first time I ever blogged! I'm a blogging Virgin.