ok here is my problem..my boyfriend who is 18 and im 21.. he was a virgin when we met and he wound up losing it to me..and we had sex alot the first two weeks and we still did have sex three times a week for a while..but now he doesnt want to have sex it decreased from once or twice a week for a month to now nothing..he said he just doesnt want our relationship to be based on that and i understand that but i love making love to him and he says he is just not horny anymore and he doesnt know whats wrong with him we have not had sex in a a few weeks and it bothers me that it may be me but he says its not..im so confused usually guys wanna have sex when a girl turns him on but now when i try he looks at me and says baby im not horny im sorry i dont know whats wrong..but we could b laying there or me kissing on him and he gets hard but he says the same thing he isnt horny..what is wrong please help me!!!