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my boyfriend was a virgin and now he doesnt want sex?

By November 2, 2009 - 5:11pm
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ok here is my problem..my boyfriend who is 18 and im 21.. he was a virgin when we met and he wound up losing it to me..and we had sex alot the first two weeks and we still did have sex three times a week for a while..but now he doesnt want to have sex it decreased from once or twice a week for a month to now nothing..he said he just doesnt want our relationship to be based on that and i understand that but i love making love to him and he says he is just not horny anymore and he doesnt know whats wrong with him we have not had sex in a a few weeks and it bothers me that it may be me but he says its not..im so confused usually guys wanna have sex when a girl turns him on but now when i try he looks at me and says baby im not horny im sorry i dont know whats wrong..but we could b laying there or me kissing on him and he gets hard but he says the same thing he isnt horny..what is wrong please help me!!!

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Hi Sassy,

I'm sorry you're having sex issues with your boyfriend. He may genuinely not be horny. There is another thread on empowher started by someone who is in your similar shoes, you may be interested in reading the responses to her.


Hope it helps

November 4, 2009 - 6:08am
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