My boyfriend was trying to solve the 'problem' of my 'wierd' low sex drive but I don't think I have a problem. I think our fighting over this eventually led to our break up. I tried to compromise with him but that always led to me going through the motions without enjoying the sex, and actually made my sex drive lower. I think he was more worried about the lack of sex than he was with how I felt about having sex I didn't want. There's no hope for the relationship, but I don't want to go through this again. Do I just wait until I find a man with the same level drive as me? Most of my friends do what he did and offer solutions to 'fix' my 'problem'. Do I have a problem? I rarely want sex, but it doesn't bother me since I don't notice it. Am I wrong to not want to do things to increase my libido? When I do have sex that I initiate or want it is extremely enjoyable and satisfying, but having sex that I don't want because my partner wants to makes me feel ill and sad.