So my boyfriend and I have decided to become sexually active together, but we've discovered that, to put it bluntly, he doesn't fit. He thinks that I should go see a gynecologist, which seems like a logical solution, except that I read about them online and am seriously not interested in a stranger probing me in various ways. I know it seems unreasonable because millions of women go on a regular basis, but I'm just not okay with it. I come from a family who, unfortunately, doesn't go to a doctor unless they are visibly ill, and certainly doesn't talk about anything sexual. I don't even know if my insurance covers it! What do I do?