I am 25, and I have been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years. We moved in very quickly together. We were and still are very in love, but the intimacy we used to have at the beginning of the relationship is a lot less than before. About a year and half ago I had an abortion, which we both agreed on, he was very supportive for any of my decision, but was still very scared and hurt about it. I am wondering if my lack of libido is due to the emotional scar, and the fear of falling pregnant. I do not want to let go of what we have, I love him and I really wish to please him.