Just reading this makes me cry because i am going through all of this too. It hurts me so bad. we just had a baby wich helped reduce the fighting but he still makes rude comments twards me as if i am a bad mom. I hate this. I love him so much but he is not affectionate twards me and hasnt been for over a year now. the only time we are getting along is when we play video games. (i know those are for kids but that is the only thing that brings us together) i just dont understand why things wont get better. I try and try and try to just talk to him about it but then we agree to work on things, he gives up a few days later. i cry all the time hoping one day he will have a heart.